You’ve been doing deep inner work on your own.

It’s time to grow together.

Rapid Personal Transformation
Through Couples Coaching

We work with couples who see partnership as a path for personal growth.

Your partnership is the most beautiful and rewarding experience in your life. It gives you meaning and purpose.

You know you’ve chosen devotion to each other for a reason — for your soul’s evolution.

You want a relationship that feels passionate and harmonious — one that you beam about.

But despite your love and commitment, you're finding it hard to navigate.

You sometimes fumble around issues — whether it’s about sex or money or kids or wanting more freedom.

Deep down, you know more is possible in your relationship.

You want to grow together and find win-win solutions that will allow you both to thrive.

And with a little guidance and support, you can expand into the full capacity of the love and joy that brought you together in the first place.

It's time to awaken the magic in your partnership again.

What We Can Explore With You

  • Sex and Intimacy

    When sex becomes a sacred ritual, it can deepen trust and heal attachment wounds. Identify blocks to intimacy, learn how to transform them through sex and other tools, and ensure you get your needs met.

  • Money

    Money can easily become a source of tension for couples. Learn how to navigate difficult financial conversations (merging finances, spending, and agreements) in ways that leave you feeling like equal partners on the same team.

  • Commitment

    Design agreements to create freedom and safety in the relationship. Create clarity on what integrity mean to you, design rituals for clearing resentments, and learn tools to get the reassurances you need.

  • Emotional Maturity

    Triggers can become potent opportunities to heal our wounds. Learn effective and loving ways to break out of behavioral patterns, hold each other in your traumas, and set loving boundaries to take care of yourself.

Romantic partnership
is a skill.
Not just a love story.

Imagine feeling truly seen, heard, and understood by your partner. Difficult conversations become doorways to greater intimacy rather than roadblocks. This is the kind of relationship you can build with conscious attention and the right support.

To be in an awakened partnership means that you’re choosing to wake up to your own patterns, your desires, and truly own the relationship you want to exist. And we’re signing up to be on the journey with you.

As your coaches, we’re committed to:

  • Inspiring a new way of relating — by teaching powerful relational tools around emotional intimacy, communication, rupture and repair, devotion, and sexuality.

  • Being honest about the joys as well as the hardships that show up in marriage and romantic relationships.

  • Customizing an immersive coaching program that supports you in designing the relationship you want.

Unlike most couples’ offerings, we focus on 2-on-2 coaching. This gives you access to two coaches, two perspectives, and two lifetimes of experience.

With both of us guiding you, we can go deeper and faster with more love and support — so that you can see the results you want in your relationship sooner and with more ease.

What Others Have To Say About Our Coaching

“We were in such a deep space, accessing some really deep wounding and ready to go deep. You both gave great guidance, helping us to land in our connection, and to explore the wounds between us in a safe, supported way. Since our session, we are processing less and moving more quickly to simply support and hold one another.”

-Harwood Ferguson

“I felt so relieved and hopeful after our session with Kiki and Edmond. They helped us find a place in our dynamic that had been holding us back. We felt so much closer and more easeful with each other after our session. It was like we were ourselves again with each other.”

-Recent Client in Boulder, June 2023

“Thank you both for being shining examples of patience and reminding me to come back to my body. What was really powerful for me is that you both reminded me to nurture myself, to remember what I’m looking for in life. You helped me get back to where my joy is. And I took away a massive trusting. I appreciate you both so much.”

-Nate Jones

Your Relationship, Transformed.

Together, we’ve spent thousands of hours and over a hundred thousand dollars gathering wisdom from immersive trainings and experienced coaches all over the world.

Based on everything we’ve learned, we'll teach you practical skills and proven frameworks for:

  • Intimacy & Passion: Explore the juicy edges of your desire, and create more aliveness than ever before.

  • Productive Communication: Break through recurrent arguments, and cut through the bullshit together so you can feel heard and understood.

  • Emotional Connection: Share your feelings and experiences with each other, and support one another to tackle life as a team.

  • Individual Empowerment: Be your authentic self, fully own what you need and want, and bravely reveal what’s true for you.

  • Joint Visioning: Co-create a shared vision and principles for your relationship, so you can build the partnership you want.

Our Story

We fell in love during our first dance — Edmond wove through a hundred people on the San Francisco ecstatic dance floor in pursuit of the beautiful goddess he’d agreed to meet for her birthday. The rest of the world faded away as we danced, flowed, laughed, twirled, gazed, touched, and kissed.

Just four months later, he proposed (and she said yes!).

We didn’t know it at the time, but we were signing up for more than just life partnership.
We were signing up to be each other’s growth partners too.

We followed a lifelong dream to travel the world nomadically for almost two years — everywhere from Bali, to Costa Rica, and to the Alps of Switzerland.

And as it turned out — there were important skills we needed to learn and master, and a pandemic’s worth of difficult challenges we needed to work through.

We didn’t get to where we are today alone.

Since 2019, we’ve immersed ourselves in a lifestyle of learning relational and emotional skills together. We’ve had a lot of support in our journey, and we’ve built a world-class team of coaches to guide us along the way.

They’ve supported us as we navigated challenging chapters — working through joint finances, prenuptial agreements, power dynamics, triggers, fear about sexual attraction to others, monogamy vs. polyamory, anger, shame, and more.

Over the last four years, our relationship has been a joint growth journey. And because we’re both huge nerds, we’ve trained in 10+ modalities including:

And we’ve distilled the most potent methods into simple frameworks to share with other couples.

Our ultimate mission is to see more love in the world.

Meet Your Coaches

  • Candace Sauvé (Kiki)

    I’m all heart with lots of fire! And I bring playful creativity to my neuro-somatic coaching.

    I come alive when diving into beliefs around self-expression, power, safety, and freedom. And I love following curiosity into the edgy questions.

    I’m a huge somatic nerd who loves to ask “how and why"?”, especially when it comes to emotional and relational dynamics. And I believe both mind and body are important for healing to happen.

  • Edmond Lau

    I love adventures — whether it’s in exploring the world or our inner emotional landscapes.

    I believe that anything that blocks us from we want in our lives and relationships stems from an avoided emotion.

    And so it’s my life’s mission to guide people through their emotional and somatic experiences so they can experience more joy in life.

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